Many myths surround child support. Child support can be defined in the dictionary as an ongoing, periodic payment that a parent makes for the financial benefit their child. Although this definition may seem simple, there are many misconceptions about child support.
- Myth #1: Child support money is for women only. They don’t spend it for children. These expenses could include the cost of schooling, clothes, after-school activities, medical costs, and health insurance. Calculating child support is done based on the child’s expenses.
- Myth #2 – I won’t be able afford child support. Child support calculations do not come from a random calculation. These calculations are determined by many factors, including your monthly income, tips and bonuses, commissions, investment interest, and time spent with your children. You won’t be required to pay any more income because the calculation is based upon your income. You can apply to modify the child support amount to reflect a change in income or circumstances, such as losing your job.
- Myth #3 – I don’t have to file any paperwork with the court. Our informal agreement is fine Sometimes parents agree to split the child support amount between themselves, and do not file any paperwork with the court. While this arrangement is fine, it is not the best. These informal agreements cannot be enforced. You cannot force the other party to pay you if they don’t pay. You cannot enforce a higher child support award if your child needs more financial support. A family lawyer can help you draft a legally binding agreement which is then filed with the court.
- Myth #4 – Child support punishes fathers. Child support is not intended to punish anyone. Child support is necessary to ensure your children are provided for all their needs. Child support is not an attempt to harm one parent. It is a program that supports children and helps them meet their financial needs.
Summarized from an article by Walzer Melcher & Yoda LLP.
