Divorce is not always easy. California is home to the majority of divorced couples. This is because they can’t get along anymore. It is not surprising that many couples fight over the terms of their divorce. An attorney can help you protect your rights if you are going through a high-conflict divorce (also known as a contested divorcement).
CAN FAMILY LAW SPECIALISTS BE CERTIFIED TO HELP WITH HIGH-CONFLICT DIVORCES?
It is not something you should take lightly. This could mean that you face a lengthy, costly and difficult legal battle. Your lawyer and you will need to stand up to your spouse and their legal representatives to get the terms you want. High-conflict divorce cases often go to trial because neither side is willing to compromise.
A CFLS is a family lawyer who has been certified by California Board of Legal Specialization or another similar organization that offers a certification program. This certification requires that the attorney goes beyond the standard licensing requirements and completes a family law education.
CAN HIGH-CONFLICT DIVORCES LAST LONGER THAN AMICABLE DIVORCES?
Yes. Yes. Uncontested divorce is when both spouses reach an agreement on the terms of the divorce. This avoids the need to go to court. In most cases, the judge will approve of the terms of the settlement agreement that is created by the couple. The divorce is over and done without any lengthy negotiations or costly court battles. High-conflict Divorce, however, can take months, sometimes even years, of hearings and conferences.
What are the COMMON SIGNS of HIGH-CONFLICT Divorce?
If you are divorcing, it is best to try for an amicable divorce. Uncontested divorces can help you save time, money, and stress. This will allow you and your spouse to control the outcome, rather than allowing a judge to make important decisions. A peaceful divorce is more private than a trial, which makes the details public. If your relationship involves:
- Deceit
- Adultery
- Blame
- Argumentativeness
- A desire for revenge
- Domestic violence
- Certain mental illnesses
- Violations of court orders
- A refusal to compromise
- Parenting by helicopter
You can prepare yourself for the legal process by recognizing the signs of high-conflict divorce before it is too late.
Summarized from an article by Boyd Law.
